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Spouse Club Chat Samples

The original Spouse Club (spouseclub.com) was a discussion board site, which was active for several years up to 2003. There were some very intelligent and articulate people posting about female-led relationships on the site that was started by Bill Higgins.

The domain name has since expired and the site is no longer up, but thanks to some intrepid internet detective work by Mark Remond, nearly all of the best posts have been recovered. Mark has very kindly forwarded us all the text he was able to recover. We are organizing these posts according to subject and archiving them here on the Venus On Top Society website for posterity.

We have not been able to locate Bill Higgins to tell him about this archive.
We believe he would be pleased to know that he started something of such value that our members want to preserve it.

Here’s a sampling of some of the Spouse Club messages. More posts like these are added every week to the membership area and the full text of the archives is available for all members.

Are you guys for real?

Posted ByLyndaBJ

I have read so many of the posts on this site and have been very impressed. I am graduating from college this spring and have already been offered a job that will pay quite well. I have alays gotten better grades than my boyfriend. He is graduating with a two year degree and cannot find a job. I have suggested that he travel with me, set up a home for us, and be a househusband for me while he looks for a job. Not only will he not consider this, but, he does not want me to follow my dreams. We could live on what I will make. I am not sure that we could live on a salary of a job he might get right out of school. If it is simpy a question of economics, should he not be willing to follow me and support my career? It is funny because I make most of the decisions in the relationship anyway. I am not giving up on my career. I may have to force my boyfriend to see the wisdom of my career. He needs to grow up.

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Are you really interested in being...

Posted By Ms. Lynda:

As all of you know who read these postings, I am a firm believer in matriarchy and women centered homes. I found the man of my dreams and married him this past summer. I do have a big question for you. So often, the men post things that sound like they are very interested in "kinky" sex. Is this true, or are most of your willing simply to be the subordinate member of the family? While I have been open, I do not wish to hurt my husband by beating him. However, I do enjoy putting men in their place. Is this fantasy for most of you, or are you really wanting this in your relationship. If the "kinky" side is there, how important are the issues of taking the woman's name, the domestic duties, etc.? I am just interested to know. Nothing is going to change at our house because of what you say. So, be honest!!!

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If Charles was my secretary

Posted By Jennifer S.:

If Charles was my secretary......
He'd have to wear tailored suits and have impeccable grooming.......
He'd have my coffee and Wall Street Journal on my desk before I arrived for work ...........
He would take dictation......
He would have to make all of my personal appointments such as hair, nails and tanning for me........
He would call me Ms. S, and answer "yes ma'am" when given an instruction.........
He would accompany me to business meetings to carry my briefcase for me........
He would run all types of errands for me, both business and personal.
He would pick up and drop off my dry cleaning, get my car washed, and shop for me when I needed him too......
Interested in the job????

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Ritual of Proof Bridal Party

Posted By Ms. Lynda:

Next wekend is the date of my wedding. Some friends and family threw a bridal party last evening. The planners used the theme expressed in RITUAL OF PROOF, a novel about a society of reversed roles. Mr. Lynda's mother escorted him into the room to face the tribunal. The Lady Officer of the Evening asked me if I accepted Mr. Lynda. She then asked him is he was entering into the relationship freely. Mr. Lynda was dressed in a very sheer bathrobe. After he said he was entering into this relationship freely and without reservation, he was excorted into another room where he was stripped and inspected for his "virginity." We were given permission to continue toward the wedding date next week where he will promise to "love, honor, and obey me in all things." Both my mother and his mother thought the party was a great idea. Mr. Lynda even enjoyed the attention. We are going to have a binding ceremony and a naming ceremony before the more traditional service. I love the feel of power. Any comments?

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