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Introduction

Women have come a long way, baby, but we still have a long way to go. Too many women today are successful at work but curiously unsuccessful, unhappy, and dissatisfied in their relationships with men. There is a reason for the problem and there is a solution. It's all laid out for you here in these pages. Women are about to learn how to find happiness in a new way of life at the leading edge of the relationship frontier.

No longer must women choose between being loved and being the leader. No longer must women furtively manipulate their men in order to have power. Men and women are forging a new kind of partnership where both partners make a conscious choice for the woman to be the leader of the household. This is the wave of the future. Is it right for you? Is this the missing ingredient in your otherwise satisfying life?

Some women will read this book just to learn how to get their man to do the laundry. Others will recognize themselves and be enthralled at the prospect of being totally in charge and totally loved for it. More and more couples every day are discarding the old model of male-dominated marriage and embracing a new lifestyle.

“But I don't necessarily want to dominate my partner or be the leader in our relationship,” you may say. “I just want to be equal.” We've been trying to be equal for decades and we're still not there. Most men are not volunteering to “empower” us to be equal, are they? I dislike that word empower. Nobody can “empower” anyone else.